與孩子的交談

與孩子的交談 無(wú)論哪個(gè)階段的家長(zhǎng)都要明白 接納是前提 尊重是基礎(chǔ) 溝通是橋梁 環(huán)境是土壤 在家庭教育中，最常用的方式是交談。交談的質(zhì)量，跟交談的藝術(shù)有密切關(guān)系。　 　 交談的時(shí)機(jī)應(yīng)該是恰當(dāng)?shù)?，交談的話題應(yīng)該是有益的、孩子是感興趣的?！　? 家長(zhǎng)和孩子雙方在情緒不佳時(shí)，特別是在氣頭上，不要交談；在事情的原委還沒(méi)有搞清楚時(shí)，不要交談；有局外人特別是有客人在場(chǎng)時(shí)，請(qǐng)不要做批評(píng)性的交談；在飯桌上，在孩子睡覺(jué)前，也不宜做批評(píng)性的交談。 漫談式，即不拘時(shí)間、地點(diǎn)、內(nèi)容，海闊天空、輕松愉快地交談， 美總統(tǒng)奧巴馬父親節(jié)感人致詞 Hi, everybody. This Sunday is Father’s Day, and so I wanted to take a moment to talk about the most important job many of us will ever have – and that’s being a dad. 大家好. 本周日即將是父親節(jié), 我想借此機(jī)會(huì)談?wù)勎覀兇蠹医K將面臨的最最重要的工作: 做一個(gè)父親. Today we’re blessed to live in a world where technology allows us to connect instantly with just about anyone on the planet. But no matter how advanced we get, there will never be a substitute for the love and support and, most importantly, the presence of a parent in a child’s life. And in many ways, that’s uniquely true for fathers. 今天我們很有幸生活在一個(gè)能瞬間可和地球上的任何一個(gè)人聯(lián)系的科技時(shí)代. 但無(wú)論科技如何發(fā)達(dá), 都沒(méi)有任何東西可以取代一個(gè)家長(zhǎng)在孩子生活中的出現(xiàn), 愛(ài)和支持. 在許多方面, 對(duì)父親而言尤為如此. I never really knew my own father. I was raised by a single mom and two wonderful grandparents who made incredible sacrifices for me. And there are single parents all across the country who do a heroic job raising terrific kids. But I still wish I had a dad who was not only around, but involved; another role model to teach me what my mom did her best to instill – values like hard work and integrity; responsibility and delayed gratification – all the things that give a child the foundation to envision a 張惠娟指導(dǎo)老師(976497872) 13:22:06 brighter future for themselves. 我從來(lái)不真正地了解我自己的父親. 我是由單親媽媽和兩個(gè)和藹的祖父母帶大, 他們?yōu)槲易隽瞬豢上胂蟮臓奚? 全國(guó)有很多的單親父母做著同樣偉大的帶大孩子的工作. 但我仍然希望我能有一個(gè)父親不僅在我周?chē)? 而且參與我的生活; 作為另一個(gè)榜樣來(lái)告訴我我的母親盡了她全力所給了我的那些價(jià)值, 如努力工作, 品行端正, 責(zé)任, 不貪圖享樂(lè), 所有這些價(jià)值都給一個(gè)孩子去設(shè)想自己的美好未來(lái)的基礎(chǔ). That’s why I try every day to be for Michelle and my girls what my father was not for my mother and me. And I’ve met plenty of other people – dads and uncles and men without a family connection – who are trying to break the cycle and give more of our young people a strong male role model. 因此我努力每天都和太太和兩個(gè)女兒在一起, 這是我的父親所沒(méi)有做到的. 我也見(jiàn)過(guò)許多其他人, 父親, 叔叔, 或沒(méi)有家庭聯(lián)系的男人, 他們都在試圖去打破常規(guī)并給我們的年青人一個(gè)強(qiáng)大的男人的榜樣. Being a good parent isn’t easy. It demands your constant attention, frequent sacrifice, and a healthy dose of patience. And nobody’s perfect. To this day, I’m still figuring out howto be a better husband to my wife and father to my kids. community organizations, as well as businesses, on a campaign to encourage strong parenting and fatherhood.look back on my life, I won’t be thinking about any particular legislation I passed or policy I promoted. I’ll be thinking about Michelle, and the journey we’ve been on together. I’ll be thinking about Sasha’s dance recitals and Malia’s tennis matches – about the conversations we’ve had and the quiet moments we’ve shared. I’ll be thinking about whether I did right by them, and whether they knew, 作為一個(gè)總統(tǒng), 我想盡我所能去鼓勵(lì)婚姻和強(qiáng)大的家庭. 我們應(yīng)該改變我們的孩子撫養(yǎng)的法律以讓更多的男人工作并介入到孩子的生活中. 我的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)班子也將繼續(xù)與宗教, 各社團(tuán), 商業(yè)聯(lián)合去發(fā)動(dòng)強(qiáng)大的如何撫育孩子和為人之父的活動(dòng). Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned along the way, it’s that all our personal successes shine a little less brightly if we fail at family. That’s what matters most. When I 要做一個(gè)好的父母是不容易的. 它要求你不停的注意力, 時(shí)常的犧牲, 和健康的耐心. 然而, 沒(méi)有人是完美的. 直到今天, 我仍在找尋如何才能做一個(gè)更好的丈夫和父親的途徑. And I want to do what I can as President to encourage marriage and strong families. We should reform our child support laws to get more men working and engaged with their children. And my Administration will continue to work with the faith and other love and help them grow into the people they were meant to be; then we will have succeeded. 這就是我想的應(yīng)該如何為人父. 假如我們能盡全力為孩子們提供舒適和勇氣, 假如我們能向他們展示無(wú)條件的愛(ài)并幫助他們成為他們想成為的人, 那我們就成功了. Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there, and have a great weekend. 祝福每一個(gè)父親父親節(jié)快樂(lè), 并過(guò)一個(gè)美好的周末。 every day, just how much they were loved. 假如一路走來(lái)我學(xué)到了一件事的話, 那就是如果我們的家庭失敗, 我們的成就將黯然無(wú)光. 家庭是最重要的. 當(dāng)我回首自己的生活, 我不會(huì)去想我所通過(guò)或推舉的任何一項(xiàng)立法, 但我會(huì)想我的太太和我們共同行走的路程. 我會(huì)去想Sasha的舞蹈彩排和Malia的網(wǎng)球比賽, 以及我們之間的談話和共享的安靜時(shí)光. 我會(huì)想我是否對(duì)他們所做是正確的, 他們是否每天都知道我是多么的愛(ài)他們. That’s what I think being a father is all about. And if we can do our best to be a source of comfort and encouragement to our kids; if we can show them unconditional 2013-06-20 [更多…]