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不要把自己的意愿強加給孩子

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    當你對孩子說“不行”、“不能做”時，孩子往往不會馬上放棄她的行動，她會一邊看著你，一邊繼續(xù)試探你是否真的不讓她做。這時，你應該果斷地走過去，把孩子抱開，讓她做別的事；而不是繼續(xù)坐在那里，重復說著“不行”，持續(xù)與孩子的較量。孩子從你果斷的態(tài)度上，可以知道這件事是真的不能做。
適當?shù)亟o孩子一點權(quán)力

　　策略6：適當?shù)亟o孩子一點權(quán)力

　　

　　有時，孩子會對某件事很感愛好，你不讓她做，她也執(zhí)拗地一定要做。這時不妨給孩子一點選擇的權(quán)力。

　　

    家里有兩排落地書櫥，樂樂對里面的東西非常感愛好，一再要打開書櫥，翻出里面的書。我不想讓她養(yǎng)成到處亂翻的習慣，又不想扼殺她的探究欲。怎么辦？我一方面告訴她亂翻書不好，另一方面她實在要打開的話，就建議她：好吧，那我們拿一樣東西，拿好就把書櫥關上。她每次都很開心地照辦?，F(xiàn)在，她不僅會打開書櫥，挑選一樣東西，然而把櫥門關上；而且東西玩好后，她還會打開櫥門，把東西放回去。

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　　讓孩子承擔責任

　　策略7：讓孩子承擔一點責任

　　

　　看到這個小標題，你或許會跳起來，這么小的孩子你讓她承擔什么責任？其實，孩子的責任感就應該從小培養(yǎng)。孩子應該從對自己做的事承擔責任開始，樹立起責任意識。

　　

    樂樂時常會把一大堆玩具弄得滿地都是，我會讓她和我一起收拾玩具，或者引導她自己收拾。她掉落的東西我讓她自己撿起來，她摔倒后我讓他自己爬起來。凡是她能做的事情，我都讓他自己做。
了解別人感受

　　策略8：讓孩子了解別人的感受

　　

　　一個不了解別人感受的人，是很難體諒別人的。雖然大人的世界有太多的辛勞和不如意，這些你或許不想讓孩子過早知道。但讓孩子了解父母的感受，體諒父母的辛勞，對孩子卻是不無益處的。

　　

    所以，我會讓樂樂知道我真的很累，我要睡覺，希望她自己玩，不要打攪我；我會讓樂樂知道我對她不好的行為真的很生氣；我會讓她知道我抱著他很累，讓她自己走；我會讓她知道打別人，別人會很痛，想打別人先打自己試試看；我會讓她知道父母也會有不對的地方，是我的不對，我會主動向她說對不起；我會讓她知道人是不可能不生病時，他必須堅強起來，承受疾病帶來的不適，而不是無休止地折磨大人……

　　

    孩子的性格都是在日常生活的點點滴滴中培養(yǎng)起來的，作為父母，我希望自己能更努力探索，使孩子成為一個受人歡迎的人、一個高情商的人。http://edu.huanbohainews.com.cn/system/2008/11/27/010217180_04.shtml

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