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href="/kcms/blog/lst?sys_types=%E8%AF%BE%E5%A4%96%E7%94%9F%E6%B4%BB&tp=blogs">課外生活</a> <a href="/kcms/blog/bloglist?status=publish&u_id=7&user_types=B--%5B%E5%8E%9F%E5%88%9B%5D%E6%88%90%E9%95%BF%E9%9A%8F%E7%AC%94">B--[原創(chuàng)]成長隨筆</a> <a href="javascript:void(0);" onclick="kcms.saveit('blogs',21662);">【收藏該博客】</a> </div> <div id="hvrrnp1" class='articleContent'> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><?xml version='1.0' encoding='utf-8'?><o:p> </o:p></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">這個題目擬定的起因很簡單，緣于我和孩子之間的一次對話！我想把它作為周一我與大家交流的話題！這個想法一出來，很快否定了原來整理好的講稿的內(nèi)容，我想，現(xiàn)在的這個話題應(yīng)該比如何處理孩子情緒的問題更加有意義吧!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">先把我與孩子間的一段對話稍加整理的一下，發(fā)在這里！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“媽，你為什么要我啊？”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #000014; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（就是生下我）</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“媽媽當(dāng)初不知道，沒有想這么多，就是覺得該要個孩子了，正好懷孕了，所以就生下了你。”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“你要我做什么？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“呵，以前我還沒想過，人家要孩子我也要，我想應(yīng)該有這么一個小家伙來延續(xù)我們的生命，或者作為我和你爸爸愛情的見證！現(xiàn)在想想，我對你沒有什么要求，你快樂的長大了就好！能自食其力的生活就好！當(dāng)然，如果我們老了，需要照顧的時候，你愿意照顧我們，我們會很高興！” <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我說到這兒，帥馬上發(fā)問：“我要是不照顧你，你會怎樣？ ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“也無所謂，你有你的生活，我不會生氣的！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥笑了，然后說：“媽，你知道嗎？我肯定會照顧你的，因為我知道你愛我，我也愛你，我愛你我一定會好好的照顧你的！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我親了他一下，然后說：“謝謝！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“媽媽，我發(fā)現(xiàn)一個問題，你其實并沒有做好要孩子的準(zhǔn)備，是嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“是，因為那時候雖然結(jié)婚了，可是我還并沒有長大，沒有自己的思想，做什么都沒有過多地考慮?！?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“我可以斷定，你結(jié)婚的時候都沒有準(zhǔn)備好！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #000014; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（暈死我了，我很驚訝，他怎么會聯(lián)想到這個問題?。?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">可我還是如實地回答：“當(dāng)時覺得考慮得很多了，覺得我們戀愛的時間足可以讓我們步入婚姻了，現(xiàn)在看來，準(zhǔn)確地說，是沒有準(zhǔn)備好，思想上的準(zhǔn)備的確不夠，互相的期待太多了！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“媽媽，你認(rèn)為你自己幸福嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“還可以??！能和家人在一起，我很快樂，你們都能帶給我幸福的感覺。雖然不是天天都快樂，但我總體上自我感覺還是幸福的！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“你和爸爸在一起，幸福嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我故意耍寶：“你說的是在一起生活，還是在一起玩??？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥撇撇嘴：“你們一天天的見不著多一會兒，別說那么長久的事情了，就說在一起待著的時候吧！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“我們在一起的時候，不以幸福為標(biāo)準(zhǔn)來衡量，因為本身我們能夠結(jié)婚生活在一起就是幸福的！至于相處的時候，要以當(dāng)時的情況來定，因為我們的意見有時候并不統(tǒng)一，你爸爸比較情緒化，而他的情緒會感染我，這是這樣，總體來講，快樂多一些吧！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥噘著嘴說：“我看你總是哄著我爸！我爸在我們面前是爸爸，在你面前就像個孩子！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（我老公有時候是這樣，有不如意的時候會向我耍個小性子，呵呵，孩子很厲害，一語中的，其實他也是在發(fā)泄自己對父親這一角色的不滿！或者如弋捷姐所言，孩子心目中的父親應(yīng)該是個男子漢，堅強而充滿力量?。?/span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“是，你說得很對！但是，爸爸有時候也需要別人給他疼愛啊！這樣是我們兩個人相處的方式，我愛他，我就會允許他這樣做，我接納他的行為，并且媽媽也會有不開心的時候，任性的時候，爸爸同樣也在以這種方式來安慰我，包容我！不過，我們會隨著年齡的增長，慢慢的來調(diào)整我們自己的狀態(tài)，我們在處理自己的情緒的時候會表現(xiàn)的越來越成熟！ <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“那你說，人為什么要相愛，為什么要結(jié)婚！結(jié)了婚就一定幸福嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“這些都是不一定的。相愛，是要遇到自己喜歡的人，兩個人相互喜歡才能相愛；結(jié)婚也是兩個人的選擇啊，必須相愛的兩個人都同意才可以。至于結(jié)了婚就一定幸福，這個就更不一定了，這要取決于結(jié)婚前的準(zhǔn)備，但我敢肯定地說，兩個相愛的、心理上都成熟的人結(jié)婚后應(yīng)該更容易得到幸福。”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“我有喜歡的人，只是她不喜歡我，所以我們不能相愛，我很羨慕你，你有相愛的人！我脖子上的這塊玉，我要好好的保護(hù)好，等我結(jié)婚的時候，我送給我媳婦！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“你也會找到你相愛的人的！這只是時間問題，咱不著急，慢慢等，小伙子！我祝福你！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥樂了：“那是自然，呵呵，到時候我們就會生孩子，你就能當(dāng)奶奶了！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我故意大叫：“天哪，我們先說好啊，我可不給你看孩子?。∧鞘悄銈冏约旱氖虑?，你們要自己照顧自己的孩子哦！要不然就不要生哦！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥說：“你真懶，呵呵，我奶奶不是也看過我嗎？不過，我會自己看我的孩子的，因為我不用生孩子，不用那么痛苦，我會好好照顧孩子的！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我順勢反問道：“小伙子，你要孩子做什么??？你也看到了，照顧孩子很麻煩的，很累人的，你也看到我是如何照顧你弟弟了！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“因為我喜歡他！我知道，雖然會很累，我還是很愛他，我覺得我一定會需要個孩子的！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（孩子究竟為什么小小年紀(jì)就會想到自己會需要一個孩子呢？我想，他應(yīng)該是覺得付出自己的愛，能得到更多的快樂吧?。?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“哦，那我祝福你！也期待你的孩子，祝你們幸福！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“說了這么半天，你問了我這么多，那你希望我們能為你做什么?。俊?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“媽，你想知道嗎？我什么都不希望，就希望你能好好的活著，不要生氣，不要生病，因為，沒有了媽媽，就是最不幸福的孩子?！?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我故意的說：“真的嗎？你知道，我有時候也很兇的，對你們發(fā)起脾氣來，也是像老虎一樣吼呢？你難道不希望我不發(fā)脾氣，對你不挑剔嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“媽，你活著對我發(fā)脾氣我也能接受，因為有時候是我做錯了，你沒有胡亂發(fā)脾氣，并且就算是亂發(fā)脾氣，你也早就給我們道過歉了。但是，你死了，就什么都沒有了！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（我想，孩子會擔(dān)心分離，懼怕死亡，是因為他在看過汶川地震的圖片后產(chǎn)生的情緒?。?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“孩子，謝謝你！是你讓我懂得成長，你比我更寬容！我們也會珍惜自己的生命，健康的活著的！媽媽愿意和你永遠(yuǎn)生活在一起！” <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥點點頭。<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“孩子，那你給我提些建議吧！我想聽聽你的看法，比如，你說的幸福，怎樣能更幸福？你覺得你幸福嗎？ ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“媽，我先問問你，你知道離婚是什么意思嗎？ ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“知道，兩個人結(jié)了婚的人不再相愛了，所以就分開了，是這樣嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“是，我們班的**的爸爸媽媽離婚了，看起來她不快樂，但是我認(rèn)為他的爸爸媽媽是幸福的，不過，他們本來能更幸福！ ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“為什么?。侩x婚了為什么還是幸福的呢？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“他們能認(rèn)識到自己需要什么，不相愛了，就分開，多好啊！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">天哪，我們現(xiàn)在身邊很多婚姻失敗的人很久都走不出離婚后的陰影，這樣看來，失去了，并不一定是悲哀的，關(guān)鍵是要知道，什么才是自己需要的?。?/span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“那他們本來能更幸福是什么意思呢？ ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“他們一開始能相愛，就能一直相愛下去，除非他們一開始不是真的相愛，否則再大的困難都不能不相愛，**都7歲了，7年啊，那么長的時間，好好的愛，會一輩子幸福的！反正我是不會離婚的... ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（小帥這些話，我一開始并沒有聽明白，慢慢的才體會到：愛一個人，是沒有任何條件的，愛就是愛，很單純的去愛，就一定會沒有什么分歧，沒有什么過不去的坎了，自然也就和諧了，也就不會離婚了！）<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>看我沒有說話，小帥說：“媽，我覺得幸福很簡單，我做我喜歡的事，我唱我喜歡的歌，我玩電腦，我有我喜歡的人，我有愛我的媽，就算數(shù)學(xué)題不會做，我考不了第一，但是這些都影響不了我，我覺得我能讓我自己快樂！” <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“你有生氣的時候嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“當(dāng)然有啊，寶寶不守規(guī)則，還有其他的同學(xué)亂動我的東西，我自己做不成飛機模型，還有你和爸爸胡亂對我發(fā)脾氣的時候我都會生氣！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“那你怎么辦？我怎么看不到你怎么排解這樣不高興的事情啊？” <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“我也發(fā)火啊，你對我喊，我也對你喊，我把不滿說出來，你不就知道了嗎？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“然后呢？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥很納悶的說:“什么然后啊，喊完了就完了唄，你還惦記什么?。俊?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（我徹底服了，我們什么時候才能有這么好的忘性阿！什么時候才能對事情如此灑脫！）<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">我還是不甘心地問道：“你就沒有什么覺得有對自己不公平的事情？”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥：“有，你照顧寶比照顧我時間長！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">娥：“那你能讓我怎么辦哪？我已經(jīng)盡力的平衡照顧你們的時間了，我覺得我沒有什么好辦法了！ ”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">帥樂了：“媽，我知道，我也沒有說什么啊，我知道你的意思，而且我也沒有要求你做什么?。侩y道你沒有注意到我把晚上講故事的書都換成英語的嗎？英語的讀本，寶寶一看就走了，呵，你就能單獨陪我一會了！”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN">（聰明的小家伙，呵呵！他不說我還真沒有注意到，只是以為他對這個故事感興趣！兩個孩子我一般都是同時陪伴，而他需要的卻是和我獨處的時間！他知道弟弟需要更多的照顧，所以，他用這種方式來解決，滿足自己的需要，也不會讓我們察覺有所意見?。?o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><font color="#000000">我們還討論的關(guān)于學(xué)習(xí)和工作的問題，談話內(nèi)容忽略不計，總的來說，給我的感覺就是：孩子是有智慧的，而且他們的智慧遠(yuǎn)比我們想象中的多得多。我們現(xiàn)在所倡導(dǎo)的活在當(dāng)下也好，平常心也好，寬容也好，靜心也罷，諸如此類的前衛(wèi)的生活方式，孩子們又有哪一點是不具備的呢？我們還能要求孩子什么呢？我們能做的，就是尊重孩子，他和我們一樣，有自己的思想，需要自己的空間，需要按照自己的生活方式去生活，不是嗎？ <o:p></o:p></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><o:p><font color="#000000"> </font></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><font color="#000000">與孩子的一番談話讓我感觸很深，而孩子最先提出的那個問題讓我陷入了深思，是啊，我們究竟是為了什么要孩子呢？孩子對我們而言，究竟意味著什么？我們又該如何對待我們的孩子呢？這難道不值得我們每個人好好的思考一下嗎？<o:p></o:p></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">看看下面的描述中有我們曾經(jīng)的影子嗎？<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">結(jié)婚后，在海誓山盟地感召下<span lang="EN-US">,</span>為了一個未知的孩子赴湯蹈火。為了將來孩子的健康<span lang="EN-US">,</span>提前半年戒煙戒酒；工作中為了避免電腦輻射<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不惜重金購買防輻射服；為了要一個孩子<span lang="EN-US">,</span>放棄事業(yè)提前休假；有的為了要孩子，更要向高齡妊娠和人的生理極限挑戰(zhàn)，什么心臟病、糖尿病、高血壓通通都擋不住一個女人執(zhí)意要生一個孩子的決心<span lang="EN-US">,</span>再大的風(fēng)險也勢不可擋……<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">孩子出生后，孩子笑了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我們跟著傻笑；孩子哭了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我們笑著哄；孩子剛剛發(fā)出了一聲含糊的“媽”的聲音，我們就樂得開了花；孩子胖了，我們累瘦了；孩子睡著，我們醒著；孩子吃飯，我們看著；好不容易輪到我們吃飯了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>人家卻要屙巴巴……<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">孩子長大些了，我們讓孩子立大志，樹高遠(yuǎn)，為了孩子的將來，我們上最好的幼兒園，請最好的老師做家教，學(xué)舞蹈、學(xué)鋼琴、學(xué)書法、學(xué)英語、學(xué)心算，總之一句話，不能輸在起跑線上，智力投資花多少錢我們眼睛都不?！?span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312">孩子上學(xué)了，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">取得了好成績<span lang="EN-US">,</span>品學(xué)兼優(yōu)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>那是本該如此；孩子沒取得大成績<span lang="EN-US">,</span>是做父母的失職<span lang="EN-US">,</span>沒有養(yǎng)育好<span lang="EN-US">,</span>沒有教育好<span lang="EN-US">,</span>更沒有盡到義務(wù)……<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">為了孩子，父母做得說不盡，道不完啊……</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">我們?yōu)槭裁匆⒆?span lang="EN-US">?</span>是為了傳宗接代續(xù)香火嗎<span lang="EN-US">?</span>想想看，我們有多少人是在雙方父母的催促下下了如此的決定？我們是在不自覺地履行著一種延續(xù)宗族血脈的義務(wù)嗎<span lang="EN-US">?<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">我們?yōu)槭裁匆⒆?span lang="EN-US">?</span>因為我們無聊、寂寞嗎<span lang="EN-US">?</span>結(jié)婚多年了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>玩夠了二人世界<span lang="EN-US">,</span>于是決定嘗試著玩玩孩子，游戲玩膩了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>可以選擇退出不玩<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但是孩子是個玩具嗎<span lang="EN-US">?</span>可以隨時丟掉不玩下去嗎<span lang="EN-US">?<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">我們?yōu)槭裁匆⒆?span lang="EN-US">?</span>難道就為了孩子，我們就要毀了自己原本還平靜的生活<span lang="EN-US">,</span>毀了我們原本還不錯的身材<span lang="EN-US">,</span>打亂所有的正常生活秩序<span lang="EN-US">,</span>只是為了孩子<span lang="EN-US">,</span>于是把辛辛苦苦攢下的錢<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大把大把的扔水里<span lang="EN-US">?<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">……<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p><font color="#000000"> </font></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">為什么要生孩子？為什么要養(yǎng)孩子？我們做父母的可能都沒有認(rèn)真地想過這個問題，只是為了家庭的完整嗎？我們有沒有想過，家庭完整了以后，我們就一定會得到幸福嗎？想想看，歸根到底，人是為了自己的幸福與利益才生兒育女的。父母當(dāng)然也無不希望自己的兒女幸福，可我們又給所謂的“幸福使者”—孩子帶來了什么呢？<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">簡單的舉兩個例子吧！估計大家都曾遇到過類似的情況：<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">曾看到過在路邊一個很斯文年輕的媽媽在打孩子，孩子由于她的推搡跪在了地上，在努力爬起來的時候媽媽還不住的用腳在踢，用手在打，孩子也就<span lang="EN-US">3</span>、<span lang="EN-US">4</span>歲的樣子，哇哇的哭著，無助的想抓住媽媽的手，在車上看的我真的很難過。一個這么小的孩子，他可能會做錯事，可是他能犯多大的不可饒恕的錯誤被這樣打啊，這是自己十月懷胎生的孩子嗎？怎么忍心下這么狠的手呢？<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p><font color="#000000"> </font></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">我們鄰居家，有個小妹妹，今年才<span lang="EN-US">2</span>年級，可是她沒有哪個晚上是閑著的。周一學(xué)英語，周二學(xué)書法，周三學(xué)鋼琴，周四學(xué)數(shù)學(xué)，周五總算不用學(xué)興趣班，但是她媽媽要在家輔導(dǎo)她做功課，雙休日去學(xué)校上課。這是個二年級學(xué)生的生活嗎？中文都沒學(xué)好就學(xué)英文，字都不認(rèn)得幾個就學(xué)書法，父母到底都在想些什么？為孩子好，那就應(yīng)該這樣嗎？</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">我們看到，在如今競爭日益激烈的環(huán)境下，越來越多的孩子失去了本應(yīng)屬于他們的一些東西，而父母則是充當(dāng)起了“超級訓(xùn)才師”的角色。每一位家長都希望把自己的孩子培養(yǎng)成天才、人才，卻沒有想到，那一個個天才、人才的心里是什么感受？<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">在我們這樣一個考試型教育的國家里，分?jǐn)?shù)在有的人心里甚至比感情更重要，考得好了，要什么有什么；考不好了，拳頭、棍棒、雷霆般的斥責(zé)聲席卷而來，這毫不夸張，每天多少家庭在上演著這樣的鬧劇！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">那么，多年前這些父母為什么要選擇生孩子呢？是孩子重要還是孩子的競爭能力更重要？父母在因為一些原因打罵孩子的時候，有沒有想過這些加在孩子身上的重?fù)?dān)是否是他們想要的！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">我只想奉勸那些在沒有想好和準(zhǔn)備好當(dāng)個合格的父母的人，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">自己對自己的人生都負(fù)不了責(zé)任，<span style="COLOR: black">還是先不要自私的把孩子生下來吧！也請現(xiàn)在為人父母的人，常常思考這兩個問題：孩子在自己的心目中到底是應(yīng)該扮演什么角色？我們當(dāng)初生孩子，是為了讓孩子幸福還是為了讓孩子在我們所謂教育的約束下過一輩子？！<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">這兩個問題我先來回答：<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">以前曾抱怨過孩子的出生帶給我的麻煩，但隨著內(nèi)心的成熟，現(xiàn)在的我很感激孩子們的降生，我因此</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">懂</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">得了什么是愛，什么是責(zé)任。為他們付出，我從來沒有想過回報；為他們付出，是一種幸福；他們是上天賜給我的人間最寶貴的東西！我是幸福的，也是幸運的！他們帶給我對生命的敬意和思考；他們帶給我的不僅是新的生活，還有心靈的成長；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">曾為了孩子的教育問題，和母親幾起爭執(zhí)，為了孩子而辦學(xué)校的做法在母親看來簡直是不可思議，母親說：“孩子上學(xué)何必那么較真，你們小時候上學(xué)我也沒管過，你們不是照樣長大？”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"> 我說：“我只是盡我所能給他提供最好的教育環(huán)境，至于他今后怎么樣，那就是他自己的事情了?！?/span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">母親就說：“你現(xiàn)在花那么多錢在他們身上，看他們將來會不會孝順你！”</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">其實我挺不喜歡“孝順”這兩個字，雖然我現(xiàn)在對父母的做法也可以稱之為孝順。生命的給予不是恩澤而應(yīng)是債責(zé)?，F(xiàn)在我仍抱著這樣的觀點，我心里一直認(rèn)為：生養(yǎng)孩子是一件辛苦的事，但這辛苦是自己找來的，并不是孩子帶來的，因為，不是孩子要出生到這個世上，而是我把他帶到了這個世上。這既然是我的責(zé)任，我就應(yīng)該負(fù)責(zé)。</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">孩子可以說是我愛的結(jié)晶，是我生命的延續(xù)，但卻不能取代我的生命和世界?？傆X得身邊有許多女人，辛辛苦苦一輩子，為的只是家庭和孩子，還經(jīng)常以自己的付出來要求對方的回報，施恩圖報不是一種健康的態(tài)度，而我們很多的人在養(yǎng)育子女方面都是抱著這種態(tài)度，其結(jié)果就是引起反感甚至反叛。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">養(yǎng)孩子，不能為了讓他帶給你什么利益，也不能為了孝敬雙方父母，更不能為了所謂夫妻感情。只有在自己當(dāng)真是母性泛濫，而且物質(zhì)和精神條件都充足的情況下，才可以生孩子。生下來就是一個生命，我們要對生命負(fù)責(zé)。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">孩子們現(xiàn)在還小，對我們還有無限的依戀，但他們肯定會有長大離開我的那一天的，我希望那時候我會對他們說：“你不用對我負(fù)責(zé)些什么，但一定要為你們自已負(fù)責(zé)！”當(dāng)然，我也希望，他們能從心底真正的帶著一份感激，為我們不求回報的付出……<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p><font color="#000000"> </font></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><font color="#000000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312">至于，</span><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">愛孩子，究竟意味著什么？希望大家能從下面的幾句話中得到啟發(fā)：</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></span></strong></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 36pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 3.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋體"><o:p><font color="#000000"> </font></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">承認(rèn)孩子的個性，并協(xié)助他的發(fā)展；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">洞察孩子的潛能，讓孩子成為他能夠成為的人；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">認(rèn)清我們自己的長處和弱點，為了孩子努力完善自己；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">創(chuàng)造一種環(huán)境，讓孩子從中找到意義和價值；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">具有追求真理的勇氣，不欺騙孩子；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">提供孩子真正需要的事物，并盡量排除他們不需要的一切；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">重視積極正面的引導(dǎo)，不回避消極負(fù)面的成分；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 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mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">做合格的父母，不是靠別人教的，而是靠自己愛孩子的心真正領(lǐng)悟到的，祝福我們所有的人，祝福我們所有的孩子們，劉娥合十。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><o:p><font color="#000000"> </font></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷體_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋體; mso-hansi-font-family: 楷體_GB2312"><font color="#000000">謝謝<span lang="EN-US">……<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" 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